• Your nerves are shot and everyone’s on that ONE you’ve got left;

  • You can’t lose your stubborn belly fat no matter how little you eat or how much you exercise; 

  • You’re hot one minute and freezing the next;

  • You can’t stay asleep at night and can barely stay awake during the day; 

  • You feel like you’re crawling out of your skin one moment and feel totally numb the next; 

  • You feel lost, alone, and at a loss for “what’s next”.


You’re not going crazy.

It’s probably perimenopause.


And don’t worry, we’ve got you.

  • Your nerves are shot and everyone’s on that ONE you’ve got left;

  • You can’t lose your stubborn belly fat no matter how little you eat or how much you exercise; 

  • You’re hot one minute and freezing the next;

  • You can’t stay asleep at night and can barely stay awake during the day; 

  • You feel like you’re crawling out of your skin one moment and feel totally numb the next; 

  • You feel lost, alone, and at a loss for “what’s next”.


You’re not going crazy.  

It’s probably 



And don’t worry, we’ve got you.

We are the rebellious midlife women you need in your life because we too can relate.

Here are the facts.


You are a woman going through physical and mental changes.  And during these changes it is possible to:

✓ Tame the never-ending stressors in your life;


✓ Lose that stubborn belly fat for good;


✓ Turn down the heat on your hot flushes;


✓ Enjoy a full night’s sleep without drugs;


✓ Heal your brain so you can think straight and under pressure when it counts; 


All while getting crystal clear on what’s next for you in this journey called midlife.

And get this my friend... 

You can do it WITHOUT pouring money down the drain on pricey pills, powders, potions or hyped-up programs that rarely (if ever) lead to long-term results.


Perimenopause is a normal stage of a woman’s life. 


And there is power in the "pause".


Hi, I'm Samantha "Dr. Sam" Graber, and here's what I'd like to share with you...



You may be reaching this conclusion right about now...

I guess this is the way it is.  I'll just suck it up and power through it.

That’s a fair conclusion.  And seemingly reasonable on paper, so to speak.  


As noted in my video above, there is no powering through perimenopause.  In fact, in my experience working with midlife women and my personal plight, the more we try to power through, the more peri- pushes back.  


This is why we work with Mother Nature holistically.  The deepest aspects of a woman’s wisdom are connected to nature.  We embrace this fact by tapping into the wisdom that lies within.  


This wisdom comes full-circle in midlife and beyond. 


This community is inspired by many whom I’ve studied over the decades.  Much of what is discussed herein can be attributed to those who’ve blazed a path.  


One such amazing human is Brené Brown.  In a 2018 article she called “The Midlife Unraveling”, she discussed how she came to coin this phrase.  The following excerpts sum it up.


As it turns out, I was right about one thing—to call what happens at midlife “a crisis” is bullshit. A crisis is an intense, short-lived, acute, easily identifiable, and defining event that can be controlled and managed.  


Midlife is not a crisis. Midlife is an unraveling.  By definition, you can’t control or manage an unraveling.


Whatever the issue, it seems as if we spend the first half of our lives shutting down feelings to stop the hurt and the second half trying to open everything back up to heal the hurt.  


The way Brené hones right in on the spirit of the experience at hand is why she is someone many of us consider our virtual BFF.  She has inspired me on many levels, and that is why I pay homage to her by naming this community, “Unraveling Together”.

We apply my KNOW>FEEL>DO Methodology to all things Unraveling Together.


This methodology provides the framework for the mental (KNOW/HEAD), emotional (FEEL/HEART), and physical (DO/BODY) skills that growth work demands.  


This holistic skillset is housed in our three centers of intelligence, the HEAD, the HEART and the BODY.  We hone in on the area in which these three centers intersect, for they are interdependent and must each be addressed along the path of growth.

The KNOW>FEEL>DO Methodology comes to life through...

Community & Connection

Women are stronger together.  When it comes to doing the inner work in midlife, we do it collectively to harness that strength. We host weekly calls to connect and bond through shared experiences.

Holistic (Peri-) Menopause

We take a holistic approach to menopause and the rather long period leading up to it, perimenopause.  Perimenopause is a natural transition period for women and we tap into the power of Mother Nature as we are going through it.

Growth Mindset

There are two ways to approach midlife; with a fixed mindset or one that favors growth.  We are Team Growth in everything we do (and don’t do).  You do the work for yourself, never by yourself. Think of this as the DIY Project of your lifetime.

“Self” Study

Learn what makes you “tick” and what makes you a “ticking time bomb”.  We look to the Enneagram and deep dive into its ancient wisdom for navigating our modern world.  This is the ultimate study of “Self”.

Real Food Recipes

We focus on eating real food that satisfies your nutritional needs so you can kick cravings to the curb along with all the products that overpromise and never deliver.  Real food is where it's at!

Taming Stressors

If only there was a way to hit a button and all our stress would evaporate into the ethers.  There is but it’s not something you hold only in your hand, you hold it in every single cell within.  Developing your personal mindfulness plan is one of our top priorities in UT.

Optimizing Sleep

We stack the deck in favor of restorative sleep. So much of what we “deal with” in life can be transformed by getting ample and deep sleep.  We are all about that and put the “multitasking” hustle to bed. (See what I did there?)

What's it like working with Dr. Sam?  

S.F. said, "I am understanding more about myself after only 7 weeks of working with Dr. Sam than I did in 7 YEARS of traditional therapy! I was never shown actual tools to move past my past and to design a future that lights me up. She’s a master at helping me help myself. I can’t wait to see what unfolds for me in the next 7 weeks!

Thank you Dr. Sam...you’ve changed everything about my life. Everything!"

K.R. shared, "Dr. Sam presents in such an affirming and 'strong love' way you know she has your back and is rooting for you - not least because of her own story."

J.M. exclaimed, “How someone can make biochemistry easy to understand, fun even, I have no idea. But Dr. Sam has that talent, no question!


Now, if you are someone who is... 

 unwilling to commit to taking action,

if you are not open to change,

a "quick fix", patch-work junkie, 

 and if you are always reaching for another pill to “fix” the problem at hand (how’s that working, BTW?)...


...then our community might not be for you. And that is okay.

However, if you are…

  • someone who wants to “get better with age” and you are dedicated to doing it as naturally as possible,
  • you realize that there is no quick-fix for anything in life and accept that it will take time to see tangible results (though less time than you may think),
  • you want a community where you’ll have accountability for taking actions you know you need to take and the structure to support you in making them, and...
  • you want to get rid of the constant overwhelm and stress, worry less, and live a life that is guilt-free, and totally fulfilling from now on...

Unraveling Together was created for YOU! 

Imagine what it will feel like when:

  • Your body is able to rev up its energy with 100% real food, and you're able to do what you WANT, not just what you need to do (and barely at that).
  • You enjoy a deeper connection to nature, and you wake up the passion inside of you that’s been asleep long enough.
  • You quickly and naturally shift from exhausted to energized, and you no longer dread trying to sleep, it comes to you with ease.
  • Your confidence and self-esteem go through the roof and you dial in your purpose and find deep meaning in life.

What would it be worth to you, to feel at home in your own skin, ready to take on the world?

Let's take a look at the Unraveling Together Ecosystem…

(Click the + for details.)

*** AND ***

I'm going to sweeten the pot with some MEMBERS-ONLY BONUSES to ensure you have everything you need to navigate perimenopause without the overwhelm...

Bonus #1  

Mini-Course: Building Your Resilience In Midlife ($77 Value)

A step-by-step process for developing one of the most critical of all skills for navigating midlife and all that comes with it...resilience.  

You’ll receive my eBook (PDF) and audiobook (MP3) in which we explore the resilience building process together.  There is an accompanying checklist with journal prompts to help you turn this information into something actionable, not just another "exercise".  

You can ask any Qs during the weekly calls hosted in the Members Only community.  

Bonus #2

[[ A Limited Time Bonus ]] 

Mini-Course: Core Values ($37 Value)

In addition to the Building Your Resilience In Midlife mini-course, when you become a full-fledged member of UT you’ll have access to an additional mini-course. 

Core Values: How Knowing Yours Will Change Everything About Midlife, Menopause & Finding Meaning Through It All - MP3 & PDF  

You have 24/7 access to everything noted above with your Unraveling Together membership...

Tell me where to send your Guest Pass below!



When you decide Unraveling Together is for you, your quarterly membership investment will be


Quarterly (Every 3 Months) Recurring Payment

Recurring payment is auto-drafted every 3 months.  You can self-cancel the next recurring payment before it runs if you so choose to.


I've Still Got Questions

Fantastic!  I want to be sure you make the best decision for you.  Check out the most frequently asked ones below...

Are you ready to navigate the midlife waters with your new tribe of rebellious besties?


I'll see you on the inside!

→ YES, I’m ready! ←

Are you ready to navigate the midlife waters with your new tribe of rebellious besties??

YES! I'm So Ready!